These toys include vibrators, dildos, and more, but can be operated from anywhere in the world via an app. This \u201cremote access,\u201d so to speak, allows you and your partner to have control over each other\u2019s pleasure experience no matter where you\u2019re located. Depending on how you use them, you may be able to discreetly use a toy in a public place (again, you can control them with an app) or even connect to an online community and give your consent to a faraway stranger to control your pleasure.<\/p>\n
In other words: Whether you\u2019re just wanting some sexy playtime at work across town, or to get raunchy with a partner on the other side of the world, these toys can make your sexy long-distance romp<\/a> an unforgettable experience. We talked to three sexperts to get their recommendations on how to choose a long-distance sex toy\u2014plus some of their favorite options on the market.<\/p>\n This form of long-distance sex play is known as teledildonics, <\/em>and there are so many options from which to choose! Here\u2019s how to narrow it down:<\/p>\n No matter what kind of stimulation you prefer (anal included), this guide will help you find an app-controlled sex toy to use with a partner or for secret solo play, wherever you are in the world.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/a><\/p>\n Kiiroo specializes in toys that allow partners to feel bi-directional pleasure. In this set you get the Pearl2, a G-spot vibrator, and the Onyx+, a male masturbator that fits over a penis that hits up to 140 simulated strokes a minute.<\/p>\n According to Amira Williams, PhD<\/a>, sex therapist and resident sexpert at LetsTalkSex, the toys will respond to each other during use via the brand\u2019s app, \u201callowing couples to feel each other\u2019s rhythm in real-time despite being miles apart, making it perfect for maintaining sexual intimacy in long-distance relationships.\u201d The toys themselves are compatible for remote use with any other Kiiroo toy, so if you decide to branch out your collection, you\u2019ll still be able to use them together.<\/p>\n The Onyx+ itself comes with a downside, and that\u2019s penis fit. People with smaller penises (diameter less than 1.5 inches) will have to separately purchase a sleeve to ensure the toy fits properly. People with penises with a diameter larger than 1.7 inches will not be able to work with this toy.<\/p>\n Materials<\/strong>: ABS, silicone (Pearl2); ABS POM (Onyx)<\/p>\n Dimensions<\/strong>: 20 x 3.9 x 3.6 centimeters (Pearl2); 8.9 x 7.9 x 26.3 cm (Onyx)<\/p>\n Power<\/strong>: USB charging<\/p>\n Battery life<\/strong>: 1 hour<\/p>\n<\/div>\n Pros:<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n Cons:<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n <\/p>\n \n <\/div>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/a><\/p>\n All three experts interviewed for this story raved about the We-Vibe brand. If you want perfectly paired, long-distance toys, the brand\u2019s Tease Us sets are a great option. \u201cIf you’re going to do long-distance play, why not get a set that comes with two toys?\u201d says Carol Queen, PhD<\/a>, sexologist at Good Vibes.<\/p>\n The set has two toys: either two of the Moxie<\/a>+ (a remote-controlled panty vibrator) or the Bond penis ring<\/a>, or one of each<\/a>. No matter your sexual configuration, you can snag perfect companion toys for both you and<\/em> your partner. The toys can be controlled via remote or with an app. Another perk: You don\u2019t need to touch the toys once they\u2019re in place, making it easier to focus on your partner through the app. You and your partner will have fun exploring the 10 different vibration settings together, even when miles apart.<\/p>\n Materials<\/strong>: Silicone and ABS<\/p>\n Dimensions<\/strong>: 7.8 x 4.4 x 4.8 centimeters (Bond); 8.5 x 2.3 x 2.7 centimeters (Moxie)<\/p>\n Power<\/strong>: USB charging<\/p>\n Battery life<\/strong>: 120 minutes<\/p>\n<\/div>\n Pros:<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n Cons:<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n <\/p>\n \n <\/div>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/a><\/p>\n If you need clitoral stimulation to orgasm, then this suction vibrator is a great option. The Melt vibrator uses pulsed air as stimulation, fitting \u201cright around the clitoris and making a sucking motion, letting many people experience easier and quicker orgasms, as well as multiple orgasms,\u201d says Suzannah Weiss<\/a>, sexologist for the eHealth project<\/a> and AASECT-certified sex educator. That feature, plus its two-hour battery life, makes this toy a great contender for a marathon sex session.<\/p>\n Of course, this isn\u2019t just a solo toy. As with the above-mentioned Moxie and Bond toys, Melt is compatible with the We-Connect app, making it easy for you or your partner to control no matter where you\u2019re located. Melt also boasts 12 intensity settings, a super quiet motor, and is totally waterproof.<\/p>\n Materials<\/strong>: Silicone<\/p>\n Dimensions<\/strong>: 12.6 x 2.4 x 1 centimeters<\/p>\n Power<\/strong>: USB charging<\/p>\n Battery life<\/strong>: Up to 2 hours<\/p>\n<\/div>\n Pros:<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n Cons:<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n <\/p>\n \n <\/div>\n <\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/a><\/p>\n The Satisfyer Pro 2 is one of the most popular clitoral stimulators<\/a> on the market (peep those 42K five-star ratings on Amazon<\/a>!), and for good reason. Like the We-Vibe Melt, the Satisfyer Pro 2 uses pulsed air waves for no-contact stimulation. But the Gen 3 version of the famous toy comes with an additional cap with \u201cliquid air technology,\u201d aka a silicone membrane that helps mimic gushing water. (So your shower head can get a rest.) There are also two motors powering the toy\u2019s 11 pressure wave and 12 vibration programs.<\/p>\n Critical note: If you want this toy to work long-distance, shell out an extra $10 for the app-enabled version of the toy. \u201cIts dedicated app control allows partners to orchestrate those waves of pleasure from any corner of the globe\u2014like being able to send love letters through sound waves!\u201d says Williams.<\/p>\n Materials<\/strong>: ABS plastic, silicone<\/p>\n Dimensions<\/strong>: 2.5 x 6.5 x 1.8 inches<\/p>\n Power<\/strong>: Magnetic USB charging<\/p>\n Battery life<\/strong>: Not listed<\/p>\n<\/div>\n Pros:<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n Cons:<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n <\/p>\n \n <\/div>\n <\/p><\/div>\n \n <\/div>\n <\/p>\nFeatures to look for when shopping for a long-distance sex toy<\/h2>\n
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The 17 best long-distance sex toys for couples that sex experts love<\/h2>\n
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