For the uninitiated, \u201cTongue vibrators are sex toys that provide the sensation of a tongue swirling and flicking,\u201d says Carol Queen, PhD, sexologist and co-author of The Sex & Pleasure Book: Good Vibrations Guide to Great Sex for Everyone<\/em> and sexologist with sex toy company Good Vibrations<\/a>. Considered a sub-type of oral sex stimulators, tongue vibrators mimic a sensation that you might encounter “out in the wild” (aka with a partner) and are even made to look like tongues in shape, size, and texture. \u201cUsing one when you masturbate can make the experience feel comparable to receiving oral sex from a partner,\u201d Dr. Queen says.<\/p>\n Tongue vibrators can zhuzh up almost any sexual situation, whether you\u2019re solo or partnered, vanilla or kinky, in a closed relationship, or into group sex<\/a>. If you’re on your own, tongue vibrators are a good option for anyone who already knows they love the feel of oral, but don\u2019t have a partner on tap to provide it. \u201cOral sex can be really intimate and vulnerable, which some people find intimidating,\u201d says Finn. For these folks, having a sex toy (like a tongue vibrator) that provides a sensation similar to oral sex can make a good alternative, they say.<\/p>\n “We\u2019re all different, so what\u2019s important is finding the angle you love.” \u2014Carol Queen, PhD, sexologist<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n If you do have your partner on hand, tongue vibrators can also be used to add in another layer of stimulation during partnered play. For example, you might use it on your clit during vaginal intercourse. You could also use it to enjoy the sensation of a tongue that isn\u2019t your partner\u2019s as a way to explore group-sex dynamics. Tongue vibrators can also be a good workaround for enjoying the sensation of oral sex with someone that you\u2019re not fluid-bonded with if you don\u2019t like the feel of dental dams, Finn says. \u201cYou could also have your partner use one on you if you\u2019re on period and aren\u2019t into the idea of a mouth on you during that time,\u201d they say. (The possibilities are endless!)<\/p>\n Whether you\u2019re single or in a long-distance relationship<\/a>, never experienced oral sex or prefer it over other sexual sensations, we gathered all you need to know about tongue vibrators. Keep reading to shop the best tongue vibrators for your next solo (or partnered) session, and for expert tips on how to use tongue vibrators in a variety of sex scenarios.<\/p>\n The term ‘tongue vibrator’ is notably used to describe several different kinds of oral sex toys. According to Lisa Finn<\/a>, sex educator with sex-toy store Babeland<\/a>, \u201cTongue vibrators are a type of sex toy that is either shaped like a tongue, or that offers a tongue-like flickering sensation to mimic the sensations of licking.” Many tongue vibrators, as their name suggests, have a motor that enables them to rumble and buzz against your body. Some of these toys, however, don\u2019t actually vibrate at all. Instead, when you turn them on, a small sliver of silicone or ABS plastic begins to oscillate back and forth, acting as a clitoral stimulator and sending pleasurable sensations throughout the body.<\/p>\n Not exclusive to tongue-shaped oral sex toys, the term \u2018tongue vibrator\u2019 is also sometimes used to describe vibrators designed to be literally worn on the tongue during oral sex, Finn adds. This version of a ‘tongue vibrator,’ however, is better categorized as a vibrating tongue ring, as is the case with The Screaming O Lingo Vibrating Tongue Ring<\/a> ($10) and Good Head Vibrating Tongue Ring <\/a>($11). There are also mouth-shaped vibrating penis sleeves (case<\/a> and point<\/a>) that have tongue elements to them as well; though, those are usually categorized as strokers, mouth masturbators, or penis vibrators, rather than tongue vibrators. A 2019 study<\/a> found that, when used in addition to penetrative sex, oral sex can enhance a person’s overall happiness and well-being. So, no matter what kind of ‘tongue vibrator’ you’re using, chances are your body will thank you later.<\/p>\n Ahead, learn more about tongue-shaped vibrators and how to use them to induce incredible orgasms.<\/p>\n Sex toys aren\u2019t like the LSATs or the GRE, you don\u2019t need to study up to have a good experience with one. You really can\u2019t use a tongue vibrator wrong, so long as you read the instruction manual and listen to your body\u2014<\/strong>or your partner\u2019s verbal and non-verbal cues\u2014<\/strong>as you sexplore. That said, here are a few tips to keep in mind before you pop in the batteries and press start on your new favorite sex toy.<\/p>\n Some tongue vibrators come fully charged, others don\u2019t\u2014really, it\u2019s luck of the draw. Most tongue vibrators (and sex toys, in general) only hold a charge for 60 to 90 minutes. So, in the event that you\u2019re looking to have a marathon masturbation session or simply don\u2019t want your tongue vibrator to turn off when you\u2019re on the precipice of orgasm, it\u2019s wise to pop your new pleasure product on the charger for a few hours before use.<\/p>\n Whether or not it’s kosher to use a sex toy straight from the package is as contentious a subject as whether or not you should wash your underwear (or other clothing, for that matter) after purchase. Still, most sex educators say it’s non-negotiable. \u201cA sex toy should be cleaned thoroughly with mild soap and hot water after you take it out of the packaging and let it air dry on a clean surface,” Rebecca Alvarez Story<\/a>, sexologist and founder of Bloomi previously<\/a> told Well+Good. “Sex toys are not sterile, so it\u2019s reasonable to expect that they have dust or bacteria, even if brand new.”<\/p>\n Similar to clitoral sex toys<\/a> and anal vibrators<\/a>, there is a ton of variation in design among tongue vibrators. Some are shaped like bullet vibrators, while others are dual stimulators. Before you go to bed with your recent buy, spend some time getting to know your sex toy intimately. For instance, some questions you should be able to answer about your sex toy include:<\/p>\n Re: that last question, most tongue vibrators are designed exclusively for external use, and many that can be used in the vaginal canal cannot<\/em> be used anally. The anal canal does not<\/em> have a body-made barrier that blocks toys from going deeper inside you the way the vagina can rely on the cervix to keep things in one place. Any toy used anally needs to have a flared-based\u2014essentially a handle or bulbous tail-end designed\u2014to keep the pleasure product from getting lost in your bum. (It\u2019s more common than you might think, according to a 2021 study<\/a>). So, if you\u2019re reading this and know you want to use the toy to experience analingus, consider the Zalo Eve Oral Pleasure Vibrator ($99) or Playboy Pleasures Harmony ($94) which are two of the few anal-safe tongue vibes on the market.<\/p>\n If you find yourself reaching for your new tongue vibrator all of a sudden, Dr. Queen recommends slowing way<\/em> down and getting good and turned on before adding it into the mix. Getting aroused, she explains, will help make the sensations the tongue vibrator provides feel even better. Your move: Turn yourself on using your usual arousal methods. Love the feel of nipple stimulation? Give those buds some attention above, then below, your shirt. Enjoy the sensation of having your labia or pubic mound teased? Reach under your waistband. Primarily turned on by sights and sounds? Power up your favorite audio-erotica<\/a> or sex scene.<\/p>\n In the same way there are multiple methods to perform cunnilingus, there are many different ways to use a tongue vibrator. For example, \u201cSome will enjoy the sensation of the tongue portion near the clit more than right on their clit,\u201d says Dr. Queen. Meanwhile, others only like the way this toy feels on their nipples, perineum, or penis head. “We\u2019re all different, so what\u2019s important is finding the angle you love,” Dr. Queen adds.<\/p>\n If you bought a tongue vibrator, odds are it\u2019s because you want the ability to experience the sensation of a tongue when your partner is MIA, whether that\u2019s because they don\u2019t exist, live far away, or are on a quick trip. Or, maybe you just want to enjoy the sensation of a tongue externally, while your partner uses their mouth to take care of other parts of your body. In order to make your tongue vibrator feel like a human tongue, Finn suggests using lots of lube. \u201cNot only will it add to making the sensations feel more like a mouth, but this will also make the sensations of the toy more pleasurable by cutting down on friction from the material,\u201d Finn says. \u201cYou can even warm the lube up in your hands or by running the bottle under warm water before putting it on the toy so it has more of the temperature of a mouth.\u201d<\/p>\n Just make sure that the lubricant you use is compatible with your tongue vibrator. Silicone-based lubricants<\/a> can\u2019t be used with toys made from silicone, which is the material most tongue vibrators are made of. (Silicone sticks to itself, so the combo can warp your toy). Finn recommends sticking with a water-based lubricant<\/a>, which will be compatible with all tongue vibrators and is also easy to clean up.<\/p>\n As you pleasure yourself, your body will let you know how it\u2019s doing every step of the way\u2014your job is to listen. The most important thing is to tune into any signs of pain that might arise. Unless that is a sensation you are intentionally<\/em> seeking out (as part of kink or power play, for example) sex shouldn\u2019t be painful, says Finn. And that includes solo sex, partnered sex, and sex that incorporates a tongue vibrator. If you begin to register any sensation as “burny,” “ouchy,” or generally uncomfortable, Finn suggests pulling the toy away from your body, doing a full-body scan, and seeing if you can discern where that sensation came from. Then, trouble-shoot it if you can (e.g. add lube or turn down the intensity). Of course, if the toy feels like it\u2019s overheating or is physically injuring you, ditch it.<\/p>\n It’s important to keep all of your sex toys clean to prevent infections and transmission of STIs, according to a 2022 study published in the Journal of Sex Research<\/em><\/a>. And, yes, you have to clean your sex toys after every<\/em> single use! \u201cSex toys can pick up fungi and bacteria when you use them, leading to yeast infections, UTIs, or bacterial vaginosis,\u201d sexologist Suzannah Weiss, a resident sexologist at Fleshy<\/a> and author of Subjectified<\/em><\/a> previously told Well+Good<\/a>.<\/p>\n Anyone who has ever had one of these vaginal infections knows they are about as fun as accidentally liking your ex’s new boo\u2019s recent post (aka not<\/em>). Therefore, it\u2019s important to clean your tongue vibrators thoroughly and regularly. Most tongue vibrators\u2014including our list of best tongue vibrators ahead\u2014are made from body-safe silicone, which means they can be cleaned with warm water and fragrance-free soap, or a quality sex toy cleaner<\/a>. Once your toy is clean, be sure to stash it somewhere safe. This can include the silk bag your toy came with, which helps protect the toy from \u2018air debris\u2019 and dirt, a bedside drawer,a\u00a0 shoe box in the closet, or any other dry, dark space.<\/p>\n <\/p>\n <\/a><\/p>\n This gold medal tongue vibrator sports the luxe gold detailing that Zalo is known for. To the naked eye, the Eve Oral Pleasure Vibrator looks like a G-spot vibrator; however, unlike those pleasure products that only<\/i> vibrate\u2014<\/b>the tip of this sex toy also moves back and forth like a tongue going to town. The toy also has a pre-fitting function that warms the toy up to the temp of a human mouth, which makes it feel even more like being with a partner. One Well+Good journalist who reviewed<\/a> the toy wrote, \u201cThis toy *definitely* rivals the tongue skills of even the most seasoned head-givers. I came hard within five minutes, and that\u2019s never happened for me with oral alone.\u201d Quite the recommendation indeed.<\/p>\n Materials: <\/strong>Silicone Pros:<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n Cons:<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n <\/p>\n \n <\/div>\n <\/p>\n <\/a><\/p>\n If there\u2019s ever been a time not to judge a book by its cover\u2014in this case, a vibe by its look\u2014it\u2019s now! The Her Ultimate Pleasure tongue vibrator by Pipedream may look a little kitschy, but it can offer some serious pleasure. The toy comes equipped with a wide mouth designed to go over your genitals, and once in place, it functions as a clit pump, helping engorge and supply blood to the area.\u00a0In addition to stimulating the vulva more broadly, \u201cthis toy also has a textured tongue at its center which targets and flicks across the clit,\u201d Finn says. When used with lubricant, this dual-stimulator feels surprisingly similar to a mouth. Oh, and the handle of the toy also vibrates and is safe to use internally as a G-spot vibrator, so it’s basically two toys in one.<\/p>\n Materials: <\/strong>Silicone Pros:<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n Cons:<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n <\/p>\n \n <\/div>\n <\/p>\n <\/a><\/p>\n This affordable option from Doc Johnson is a finger vibrator shaped (and colored!) like a tongue. Simply slip it onto your finger, turn it on, and enjoy its one intense vibration setting. \u201cThis toy can also slide over your tongue and transform your entire tongue into a vibrator,\u201d says Finn. From here, \u201cyou can either lick your partner directly or press the squishy soft material of the toy up against their hot spots for next level oral,\u201d they say.\u00a0While this toy is cheap, just keep in mind that it is a one-and-done single-use product. Made out of a porous material called TPE, this toy cannot be sanitized after use, which means using it multiple times puts you at risk for infections. Still, for people intrigued by tongue vibrators, this could be a good starting point.<\/p>\n Materials: <\/strong>TPE Pros:<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n Cons:<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n <\/p>\n \n <\/div>\n <\/p>\n <\/a><\/p>\n The ultimate two-for-one product, the Playboy Pleasure True Indulge is a tongue vibrator and G-spot vibrator all at once. \u201cOne end features an external stimulator that looks like a calla lily, which has a flexible silicone rim surrounding the tongue that strokes and flicks while pairing with vibration against the clit,\u201d says Finn. Flip the toy around, however, and you can use the curved vibrating shaft for internal penetration and G-spot stimulation as well, they say.<\/p>\n Materials:<\/strong> Silicone Pros:<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n Cons:<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n <\/p>\n \n <\/div>\n <\/p>\n <\/a><\/p>\n No bigger than a fist, the Lelo Ora 3 packs a serious pleasure punch. This toy features a high-tech tongue that makes circles around<\/i> your clit, rather than flicking back and forth over it at lighting speed as many other tongue vibrators do. \u201cIt’s a very different and unique experience, compared to simple external vibrator toys or suction-type stimulation that clit suction toys provide,\u201d human sexuality professor Zhana Vrangalova<\/a>, PhD previously<\/a> told Well+Good about the Ora 2, an earlier generation of the product. One of the most notable features of the Lelo Ora 3 is that it responds to your touch. The harder you press the toy into your body, the firmer the strokes of the mechanical tongue become.<\/p>\n Materials:<\/strong> Silicone Pros:<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n Cons:<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n <\/p>\n \n <\/div>\n <\/p>\n <\/a><\/p>\n Dual stimulation is the name of the game with the Playboy Pleasures Harmony tongue vibrator. \u201cIt has a curved shaft that has vibration and provides a tapping sensation for G-spot stimulation, while the external arm has a flicking and vibrating tongue that provides an oral-esque sensation on the clitoris,\u201d explains Finn. Basically, it stimulates all your erogenous zones in harmony. (Get it?) Thanks to its shape, this toy is also anal-safe, which means more experienced anal explorers can use it to explore anal play<\/a>.<\/p>\n Materials: <\/strong>Silicone Pros:<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n Cons:<\/strong><\/p>\n<\/p><\/div>\n <\/p>\n\n
What is a tongue vibrator?<\/h2>\n
How to use a tongue vibrator<\/h2>\n
1. Make sure your tongue vibrator is charged<\/h3>\n
2. Clean your tongue vibrator before each use<\/h3>\n
3. Get to know your tongue vibrator<\/h3>\n
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4. Get in the mood<\/h3>\n
5. Lather on the lube<\/h3>\n
6. Check in with yourself<\/h3>\n
7. Take a minute to clean up afterward<\/h3>\n
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\nDimensions: <\/strong>8.65 x 1.7 inches
\nSettings: <\/strong>Six modes
\nPower type: <\/strong>Rechargeable
\nWaterproof: <\/strong>Yes<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n
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\nDimensions:<\/strong> 10 x 2.5 inches
\nSettings: <\/strong>20 suction and vibration patterns
\nPower type:<\/strong> Rechargeable
\nWaterproof:<\/strong> Yes<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n
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\nDimensions: <\/strong>1.7 x 0.8 inches
\nSettings: <\/strong>1 vibration speeds
\nPower type: <\/strong>Battery
\nWaterproof:<\/strong> No<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n
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\nDimensions:<\/strong> 8.38 x 1.95 inches
\nSettings:<\/strong> 18 speeds and rhythms
\nPower type:<\/strong> Rechargeable
\nWaterproof:<\/strong> Yes<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n
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\nDimensions:<\/strong> 3.2 x 1.7 inches
\nSettings:<\/strong> 12 settings
\nPower type:<\/strong> Rechargeable
\nWaterproof:<\/strong> Yes<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n
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\nDimensions: <\/strong>9 x 1.48 inches
\nSettings: <\/strong>10 speeds and rhythms
\nPower type: <\/strong>Rechargeable
\nWaterproof:<\/strong> Yes<\/p>\n<\/div>\n\n
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